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A journey towards living fully alive! December 2007
 
In This Issue
Marriage Fully Alive Website
Merry Christmas
Are you an eagle or turkey?

News and Notes!
Beginning in 2008 the Marriage Fully Alive Adventure newsletter will be sent every week instead of monthly. Look forward to more resources and information on experiencing life and relationships that are fully alive!

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Greetings,
 
While I was driving across the metroplex the other day with the radio on, Ice, Ice Baby was playing. Talk about a blast from the past. It got me thinking about when I was younger and the dreams I had back then for later in life. That led to an examination of how well these dreams had been incorporated into my life thus far. I am happy to say that some of these dreams have been realized. Other dreams have not, in fact, not even close. So did those dreams die? Or are they still buried in my heart somewhere? I believe they are still there. And with some work, they can be uncovered and realized. What were your dreams for life when you were younger? How well have they been included in your life path? Take some time to write down your childhood dreams and examine if they have either been realized or if they are still producing a bit of uneasiness and disappointment in life due to their being unfulfilled. It's not too late to follow your dreams, to live the life you may have always wanted. Start today!
And since I am sure you are wondering ... yes I did turn the radio up and sing along! 
 
Keep exploring!

Corey


Have you seen our new website?
 
This month, our new website was rolled out. It will allow for more resources and information to be easily accessible. Be sure to check us out at www.marriagefullyalive.com.
Coming in 2008 will be a virtual community designed to connect people from all over the world that desire to experience life and relationships fully alive. This is only the beginning of some great things God is doing at Marriage Fully Alive. We covet your prayers and input as we venture into living fully alive!

 
Merry Christmas from Marriage Fully Alive
 
As the shopping days before Christmas are disappearing quickly, realize that there are many gifts you can get for the people important to you that require little to no money. Offer to help a friend or family member by cleaning out their garage or closet with them, mowing their lawn, or baby-sit their children while they go out for a nice evening together. There are many ways to say you care, and if you can think of nothing else to buy or do, simply tell them how much you love them and how grateful you are to have them in your life. That's news we all like to hear.
This will be out last newsletter until 2008. We'll see you weekly next year! May God bless you and your family this holiday season. 

Are you and eagle or a turkey? 
 
Once upon a time in the long, long ago the Eagle and the Turkey were very good friends. Everywhere they went these friends went together. It was not uncommon for people to look up and see the Eagle and the Turkey flying side by side through the air.

One day while flying, the Turkey said to the Eagle: “Let’s drop down and get a bite to eat. My stomach is growling.” “Sounds like a good idea to me,” replied the Eagle. So the two birds glided down to earth, saw several animals eating, and decided to join them. They landed next to the Cow. The Cow was busy eating corn, but noticed that the Eagle and the Turkey were soon sitting on the ground next to her. “Welcome,” said the Cow. “Help yourself to the corn.”

This took the two birds by surprise. They were not accustomed to having other animals share their food quite so readily. “Why are you willing to share your corn with us?” asked the Eagle. “Oh, we have plenty to eat here. Mr. Farmer gives us all we want,” replied the Cow. With that invitation, the Eagle and The Turkey jumped in and ate their fill. When they finished, the Turkey asked more about Mr. Farmer. “Well,” said the Cow, “he grows all our food. We don’t have to work for the food at all.”

“You mean,” said the Turkey, “that Mr. Farmer simply gives you all you want to eat?” “That’s right,” said the Cow. “Not only that, but he gives us a place to live.” The Turkey and the Eagle were shocked! They had never heard of such a thing. They had always had to search for food and work for shelter.

When it came time to leave, the Turkey and the Eagle began to discuss the situation. “Maybe we should just stay here,” said the Turkey. “We can have all the food we want without working. And that barn over there sure beats those nests we have been building. Besides, I’m getting tired of always having to work for a living.”

“I don’t know about all this,” said the Eagle. “It sounds too good to be true. I find it hard to believe that one can get something for nothing. Besides, I kinda like flying high and free through the air. And providing for food and shelter isn’t so bad. In fact, I find it quite challenging.”

Well, the Turkey thought it over and decided to stay where there was free food and shelter. But the Eagle decided that he loved his freedom too much to give it up, and enjoyed the consistent challenge of making his own living. So, after saying good-bye to his old friend the Turkey, the Eagle set sail for the unknown adventure.

Everything went fine for the Turkey. He ate all he wanted. He never worked. He grew fat and lazy. But then one day he heard the farmer’s wife mention that Thanksgiving was coming in the next few days and it would be nice to have roast turkey for dinner. Hearing that, the Turkey decided it was time to check out and rejoin his good friend Mr. Eagle. But when he attempted to fly he found that he had grown too fat and lazy. Instead of being able to fly, he could only flutter. So on Thanksgiving Day the farmer’s family sat down to roast Turkey.

When you give up the challenges of life in pursuit of “security,” you may give up your freedom.
 
As you enter into 2008, how can you fly free this year? And this question is not meant to encourage you to leave your current relationship, rather it is intended to challenge it to be more. To fly free in your current situation. There is more that can be experienced if you are willing to venture beyond what you currently know and expect. Change your prespective and you may break free to fly.
 
(I do not know the author of this story and have taken the liberty to adapt it here.)

The marriage fully alive team is here to assist you and your spouse with becoming fully alive. For more resources and information visit www.marriagefullyalive.com.  Also be sure to check out our blog to hear more from us at www.blog.marriagefullyalive.com.
God Bless,
 

Marriage Fully Alive®


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